For years, the feud between Teresa Giudice and Melissa Gorga has dominated the show and headlines.

It has also shaped the direction of both of these women’s lives — and those of their family members.

But when did it start?

And when did it all spin out of control?

Take a look below as think back to how it all begin … and where things went so, so wrong.

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